I find your writing so fascinating, equal parts education and primal scream! It seems everything in our world is f*cked up so dating and partnership is not surprisingly a complete mess. Having grown up in the 70s it was a lot easier to meet people (although no less awkward). The dating apps, hookup culture and new definitions of sexuality along with the questioning of monogamy make this a minefield for single people, particularly younger single people. I have no answers nor judgements. I appreciate your perspective. My guess is most men are immature and spoiled and most women won’t put up with that crap anymore. Nor should they.